“Hey, you wanna dance?” I look back over my bare shoulder to see who it is that’s tugging on my hand. He’s about 6’0,” 210lbs, dark-browned skinned with a REALLY nice fade and hairline combo. I lean in a bit and notice his teeth are together and while his cologne is obvious, it’s not overbearing-I’m a fan. He’s definitely my type-of course I wouldn’t mind getting a little closer! “Yeah, that’s cool.”
Next thing I know, this man has positioned himself directly behind me and is grinding “nut to butt,” on my backside, thrusting so powerfully he has to grip my midsection to keep me from tumbling over. Suddenly, I’m feeling EXTREMELY uncomfortable. I thought he wanted to dance?
Unfortunately, this is an all-to-common occurrence in thousands of clubs on any given night in America. These attractive predators lure innocent, unsuspecting women into their clutches and proceed to sexually harass them! As a result of the aforementioned scenario, now whenever a man asks me to dance my response is, “Heck no!”